According to the Lord’s prayer, no one is forgiven who does not forgive others? Despite statements from Peter, John, Hebrews, and Paul that speak of forgiveness as a done deal, is this something we should worry about?
Now, if any of you are hearing this with the spirit of condemnation hanging over your head, it’s only because you’re trying to hold on to two radically different propositions at the same time. It’s like trying to travel east and west simultaneously. But trying to do the one while believing we are still doing the other is the very thing that leaves us confused and paralyzed. You see, asking God to help you to remove your sin is built upon the assumption that Jesus Christ hasn’t already done it. source